Gifting Yourselves

I don't think I've ever worked as hard as I have this semester. New program, new beginnings, new professors to attempt to impress but most of all, after a dreadful two-year stint in a program I hated, it was past-time for me to remember the student I used to be.

On the last day of my last class my favorite professor took me aside to exchange a quick word. The stark contrast between the disapproving lectures from last year's teachers and what was to follow from this wonderful journalist literally brought tears to my eyes: "Miss, you're my top student," he said. "I've mentioned your name to the professors you'll have next semester and they're all looking forward to teaching you. I know I'll see great things from you." The conversation itself lasted maybe ten minutes, but it was enough to smooth over the two years of stress, embarrassment and hurt.

With this in mind I took myself out with one of my wonderful new friends on a "glamorous girl's" shopping expedition including Valet parking, Holt Renfrew and Tiffany. It was in Tiffany that my eyes paused on one of my favorite collections to date, the Tiffany keys:

I had been coveting the beautiful key you see second to the right for months and I decided then and there that it was time to buy it. Expensive jewelry isn't something I ever treat myself to; I rely on anniversaries with Constantine {I've picked a keeper ❤} and the occasional landmark gifts from my parents instead of shelling out my savings for a bit of sparkle. This purchase, however, was special. I was gifting myself, rewarding myself for the hard work I'd put into this term. As a result, I appreciate it more than I do almost all my other jewelry, even if it isn't the most expensive thing I own. I haven't been able to take it off ever since, but can you blame me ^~?

I heartily encourage you to gift yourselves this Christmas. Pause for a moment during a frantic Christmas shop and think back on your year. Focus on the accomplishments you've had and the trials you've struggled through. Celebrate yourself by buying that pair of shoes or those earrings you always admire. Not one for gifts? Treat yourself to a massage, a lunch, or even just a coffee. Go for a snowy walk. Do something that you know will make you happy for the sole purpose of self indulgence. For once, make it all about you. You deserve it!

❤ Miss